Get prepared for the Royal Kiss Off ("Dear John Letter") about two months into your first deployment.
I would cease and desist young man. You really do not know where you tread. Your question has been answered... move on.With all due respect he never said he was married (and if he was, then I wouldn't have commented on his situation) and me and my GF (we are a serious couple we have been together for pretty much our whole lives as we were childhood friends) we had a moment similar to this. I didn't want to type all this because my device is hard to type on. She wanted to be a USCG Rescue Swimmer. And I want to serve in a SOF medical role. And we talked it out and it was determined that I will join and she wouldn't. If I couldn't join then she would. Again sorry if I sound rude or disrespectful, I have all the respect possible for you men and women on here. And anyway I laid it out in a similar way, and it resolved our problem I figured if it worked for us, it might work for him. Hate to say it for a third time, but just so it's made very clear, I have all the respect possible for you men and women and hope to in the future gain knowledge and engage in conversation with everyone here. So I apologize if this sounds rude or disrespectful, but two well respected members have liked my comment.