Shakatu,
I see quite a few things disturbing in your statement.
A. If you are banking on a beret to be the differentiating factor between you and someone who just graduated OSUT, you probably need to go through your course again.
B. There are PO/CA guys who graduate their course without deployments as well, and they are walking around those infantry guys with multiple deployments and years of experience and training. That's the bummer of being on Bragg, the PO/CA guys are pretty far down on the totem pole. Don't get it twisted and think the umbrella term SOF makes you better than infantry.
C. What Gucci gear is it that you think you need to do your job better? As one of the guys who gets the gear, I can tell you, most of it is not needed. The PO/CA guys I've had attached to my detachments were always judged based on their competence and work ethic. Not their gear. Me giving a Psyoper an H&K 416 isn't going to help you target that audience and sway perceptions the way I need them to. It's just going to get you in trouble running around thinking you're a commando when you're not.
D. I agree you should be proud of your accomplishments, but this "beret for everyone" only lessens its importance. Each time we add another color to the mix it just shows how insignificant they have become. If a unique piece of headgear was something you want, you should have to choose a unit that has already been deemed worthy of having one. Sounds like a kid that didn't win the soccer game but still wants his medal. Yes, they volunteered for an "A&S", but just cause others haven't doesn't mean they couldn't. I would throw a guess out there and say most infantry NCOS could pass the PO or CA selections.
Lastly, just face out, take a knee, and drink some water for a minute. You stated above how you feel about the SOF truths, but maybe understanding a SOF imperative will help: Know your operational environment. Yes, you posted in the PSYOP forum, but it goes to the main page. There are some legit guys on here who did some legit things. A bratty Psyoper complaining about the beret he wants because he thinks he did more than everyone is not going to get you anywhere. If you truly enjoy your mission, be thankful yo have the opportunity to do it, and then execute it to the best of your ability.